Thursday, August 28, 2008

More Proof That Evolution Sucks

A friend and I have been commiserating over our infertility for several years now though we were on different paths. We went adoption, she and her husband have been going though fertility treatments. Earlier in her life she had some health problems that were causing some problems. She managed to get pregnant earlier this year. I don't think I have ever seen anyone happier than her when expecting a baby. So needless to say, this was just an amazing time for her. We held our breath a little through the first trimester, but she and the baby were healthy.
She lost the baby today.
It's almost more than I can bear, I can't imagine what she and her husband are going through. I don't get it, and I never will. As much as I can hurt for myself sometimes, this is worse. This is unfair. Suck it, Darwin or God or whoever's fault this is. OK, that's stupid, I know. But I don't care. I'm going to be immature for a little bit.


Donna O. said...

Oh my goodness Duffy, how very sad. I just don't understand either. People that want a family so bad and can't have it, when others and teens pop them out so easily. It just isn't fair. Hang in there. Love you guys.

Barbara Batzer said...

It is OK to be immature,have temper tantrums and eat too much chocolate. Your Friends are in my prayers, although I have no idea how to comfort them. Love, Barbara