Wednesday, August 26, 2009

Gearing Up (but a bit reserved this time)


We've been selected again.


These are more difficult words to type than one would think . . . while we're beyond excited, and everything is right around the corner for us - we're quite reserved in our elation. The first we had a "disappointment", we kind of saw it coming. We had no anger or resentment or anything of the sort. There was a birthmom who thought we were pretty cool, and if she couldn't parent her child, she would pass it to us. However, she decided to parent -- we cried, we dusted ourselves off, and we got back on our feet.


This last disappointment was much harder to take -- the anger didn't come from the fact that the birthmom chose to parent the child -- it came from the lies. And it's the fact, I think, that we held resentment, of any sort, for a birthmom, that has us putting the brakes on pure elation.


Still, this is a time for elation -- we're going to be parents. A birthmom in Delaware has chosen us -- a Cesarean section will be scheduled in mid-September. It's a boy. All signs point toward the fact that it will enter this world as a healthy boy. We're hoping to meet up with the birthmom within the next week or so -- and, obviously, we'll have more to say after that event takes place.


So, right now - continue your well wishes, your prayers, your finger crossings. They are all well appreciated. We'll post updates as we can - it's quite odd being in this position, where we just want to cry out in happiness, yet defense mechanisms are keeping us in check for right now.


2 comments:

Jamie M said...

I hope this one works out for you two. I am the adoptive father of a 15 month old (Joshua). You both have been through so much, and have kept so positive. We also used AFTH and were very happy. When this happens for you, you will forget all the waiting you did, and will have your cherished and very loved child to look after.

Best wishes
Jamie M

Duffy Batzer said...

Thank you, Jamie. Tomorrow is the big meet up! Send positive thoughts our way.